{"id":24143,"date":"2022-02-09T12:36:33","date_gmt":"2022-02-09T11:36:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/?p=24143"},"modified":"2022-02-09T12:36:33","modified_gmt":"2022-02-09T11:36:33","slug":"blog-words-time-to-quit-dev-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/blog\/blog-words-time-to-quit-dev-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Code Words That Mean It\u2019s Time To Quit Your Dev Job"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It isn\u2019t always easy to know when the right time has come to leave your job. A career is not a bus itinerary, with clearly labelled stops and windows to see where you\u2019re going, and it\u2019s not uncommon for people to step off the ride thinking <em>I should have done this so much earlier<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But while your company may seldom wave a big red flag in front of your desk, it can \u2013 and very often will \u2013 provide indirect clues that the time has come to move on. In this article we will be looking specifically at <em>verbal<\/em> clues \u2013 things that management or your colleagues may say to you which, while not an explicit invitation to leave, should start ringing some alarm bells.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is (hopefully) not necessary to specify that we are not advising anyone to just up and resign the moment they hear these words. What we do advise, however, is not being complacent about your professional surroundings, much less your career. None of these sentences are a death knell for your job \u2013 but if you hear them, well, it\u2019s not a bad idea to ask yourself if they carry any subtler meanings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s start with&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cIt\u2019s a bad idea, but hey, that\u2019s what they want\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the type of phrase that is (sort of) acceptable if said by a freelancer in response to a request by a client. Ideally, one should always offer some professional advice, but if a client insists on paying for software that isn\u2019t going to do them any good, well, it\u2019s their money to waste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/files\/AdobeStock-by-WavebreakMediaMicro_107778660-1-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"Man shrugging his shoulder in office\" class=\"wp-image-24159\"\/><figcaption>Adobe Stock \/ WaveBreakMedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it\u2019s a very different story if you\u2019re an employee, you hear a colleague speaking these words (especially on a regular basis), and it is said in response to something requested by management. That\u2019s a clear sign that a disconnect has developed (or is developing) between the people at the top of the company and those you\u2019re working with. It\u2019s evidence that the boss is not listening to your product manager, or \u2013 and this may be even worse for you \u2013 that the product manager is not listening to their own developers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While this is a situation that sometimes fixes itself, it typically needs to reach a state of crisis first \u2013 that is to say, it needs to become the sort of situation where people yell at you for somebody else\u2019s mistakes. You might want to spare yourself that, and get off the vehicle before it crashes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cThis is how it\u2019s always been done\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m probably not telling you anything you don\u2019t already know with this one \u2013 the sentence \u201cthis is how it\u2019s always been done\u201d has a way of getting on people\u2019s nerves not just in tech, but in any industry where innovation matters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If people start throwing this excuse at you when you propose that something be changed, it\u2019s a warning sign that your team is beginning to stagnate \u2013 philosophically if not yet in terms of languages and frameworks. And stagnation is public enemy number one for a developer who has career aspirations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not only is this sentence a hint that you will spend more and more hours in the future doing repetitive, avoidable work, it also tells you that you are likely to learn less and less the longer you stay there. In fact, if that particular phrase starts getting combined with talk of \u2018legacy system\u2019, eh, it\u2019s probably time to consider your options\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cYou\u2019re the best programmer here by a mile\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It doesn\u2019t happen terribly often, but sometimes words of kindness can be a bad omen. In this case, if either colleagues or management are telling you that you have no peers in the team, perhaps you should start questioning what you\u2019re doing in that team in the first place. Perhaps you belong in a higher league?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/files\/AdobeStock-by-fizkes_297064935-scaled-e1644404942783.jpeg\" alt=\"asian young businesswoman cheered complimented\" class=\"wp-image-24147\"\/><figcaption>Adobe Stock \/ fizkes<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You should be wary of finding yourself in groups where there\u2019s nobody left who can teach you something. As importantly, if everybody thinks that you\u2019re so good, then could it be that the work you\u2019re doing is not challenging you sufficiently? Is said work actually improving you as a developer, or are we back to the problem of stagnation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the very least, if people are praising you so highly, then you should consider asking for a raise or a promotion. But even then, as it is more important in the long term to cultivate your skills than your salary, the best option may simply be to walk away. Even from all that kindness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cThe coffee used to be a lot better\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ok, hang on \u2013 we\u2019re not actually suggesting leaving your job over the quality of the coffee-machine (although some of us might consider it\u2026). Rather, the point is to look out not for <em>this<\/em> particular sentence but for sentences <em>like<\/em> this one, and more precisely, any sentence serving as a clue that your company\u2019s financial conditions are deteriorating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often these clues are not verbal in form. You may notice, for example, that in recent times several of the top people in the company have been departing. Attention to detail has gone slightly down. Things are done late, and reviews feel hurried and sloppy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If a company is going downhill, then it\u2019s wise not to be around when it hits the ground. They will have little to offer you going forward, and they may very well lay you off because they can no longer afford you. Leave of your own volition before someone else pushes you out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cI\u2019m worried about you\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s great if others in your team show they care about you, but it\u2019s not exactly a good sign if they\u2019re worried, and this for two reasons. Firstly, when we as individuals are in trouble, we often tend to downplay it. We may tell ourselves that we\u2019re \u2018just a bit tired\u2019 when we\u2019re already halfway to burnout, or that we\u2019re going through \u2018a bit of a mood\u2019 when really we are sliding towards depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The second reason is that the concern others express about how you are doing also tends to be disproportionate to your trouble \u2013 people will only start saying that they are \u2018a bit worried\u2019 when the reasons to be worried get pretty substantial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thus, if your colleagues begin to share misgivings about your well-being, or if your boss sits you down to have a talk about \u2018how you\u2019ve been doing\u2019, that is an alarm bell that you should take seriously. Consider changing something about the way you work \u2013 and remember that often the easiest way of doing that is simply to step away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If others are worried, why aren\u2019t you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">(Nothing)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/files\/AdobeStock-by-PR-Image-Factory_297467066-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"Bored computer programmer\" class=\"wp-image-24155\"\/><figcaption>Adobe Stock \/ Image Factory<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This one is not about others, it\u2019s about you. Specifically, it\u2019s about those times when you see something you don\u2019t like or hear something you disagree with, and you just lower your head and say nothing. Maybe you\u2019re just not very talkative in general (in which case it\u2019s a different story), but on the other hand, it may be something new \u2013 and then there may be reason to worry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you used to speak up about making a project as good as it could possibly be, and now you no longer do, that means that you want to spend less energy thinking about work and less time talking about it. In other words, you have lost passion and interest. That\u2019s not a trivial matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"blog\/-words-time-to-quit-dev-job\">You saying nothing is your subconscious actually saying something \u2013 it is telling you, <em>I don\u2019t want to be here<\/em>. You should listen to that. If you no longer take pride in what you do, if it no longer makes you want to get out of bed in the morning, then it\u2019s time for you to find something that does. And if your company can\u2019t offer that, then yes, it\u2019s time to change companies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The universe has many funny \u2013 and sometimes not so funny \u2013 ways of communicating with us, but it almost never does straight talk. Nobody will ever come and say to you directly \u2018Hey, it\u2019s time to leave your job\u2019, and this does not combine well with our natural instinct to just settle with whatever we have as long as it\u2019s vaguely tolerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">None of the sentences above are direct instructions to leave, but they do provide clues. Clues that things may not be going so well, either with you or with your company, and that perhaps you\u2019re not in the best place for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If that happens, consider the alternative. The universe may not do straight talk \u2013 but it does require straight answers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If someone says this out loud in the office, you should start packing your bags.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":24157,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-careers"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24143"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24143\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":62583,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24143\/revisions\/62583"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24157"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wbscodingschool.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}